This is another post about the beautiful blonde that I have a crush on. We have decided that we are involved with each other, though not to what extent. I am being monogamous to her, but that is my personal decision. I don't know if we are just friends-with-benefits, or if we are working our way to being a couple or what, and right now I'm okay with that...a little. But what I'm afraid of is when/if we decide we are a couple, because she is not out, at all.
I don't know how to deal with dating someone who isn't out. I've only dated girls who are out, who are willing to hold my hand in public and kiss me in public. I've never dated someone who isn't willing to do those things and I don't know how to deal with that.
Has anyone who reads here been through this? How did you deal with it?